My boyfriend refuses to marry me

I have a very big problem. I was born on December 29, 1977, in Jaipur (Rajasthan) at 5.30pm and presently stay in Gujarat. While working I fell in love with a man who too loves me a lot but he is married and also has a son. I have proposed marriage to him so many time when we were working together but he refused because he feels that if he marries me then he is spoiling my life because he is married and elder to me by 16 years. After he left India I thought I should do what my parents wants me to, so they are looking for a good alliance for me and somehow I am trying to control my emotions for him but I still fail sometimes. Sir, I wanted to know can Feng Shui help me out and help me to find a good partner with whom I can be happy and who belongs to my caste? Please reply.
Saloni Gupta, Gujarat
shalini12g@yahoo.com

Sleep with your head in South for better luck in Marriage. However, as your case is more complex, you may consult me professionally.