Feng Shui for improving married life

I would like to know the ways in which harmony in married life could be improved as many a times I feel that my thoughts do not match my partner's views and this causes tensions.
Raj, UK
rajeevm007@yahoo.com

Harmony in married life, or in a family (or for that matter in an organisation), in Feng Shui, depends on the placement of various elements in the premises. There is a creative cycle of elements and there is a destructive cycle of elements. Elements that support one another (for instance Earth and Fire) contribute to the harmony and elements that are in destructive mode (for instance Wood and Metal) cause problems.
Besides, various sectors are ruled by various elements (Wealth, for instance, is ruled by Wood element) and it is necessary to identify various sectors before checking the harmony of elements. This, along with the directions, colours, elements etc that are lucky for one (depending on the date of birth) – to put it very briefly – can bring harmony in one’s life.
This cannot be achieved by one brief answer to a short question. I will need the floor plan of your house along with the dates of birth of both of you to give you professional advice. For the time being I suggest that you and your wife may go together and acquire a ceramic pot and some artificial flowers (some red and the others yellow) and place them in Southwest of your bedroom.